A negative comment about a party at Arisia

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Far as I'm concerned, you can EITHER have an invite-only party OR you can advertise your party.

But it's FUCKING RUDE to advertise your invite-only party.

Don't mind invite-only parties. Don't even mind invite-only parties who, apparently, were going around handing out invites only to women who were dressed slutty. Heck, if someone took that to the extreme, and walked around the con handing out slips of paper which said, "You're sexy. Come to my room at 11 pm," that wouldn't bother me. And if he or she got people to show up, more power to him or her.

DO mind people who do that and also put posters up in the stairwells advertising their party. It's fucking RUDE to do that, then set up a velvet rope outside, and do the "club" thing. Dunno about you, but I go to cons to get away from that kind of dynamic.

Yes, I'm pissed off at not being pretty enough to get into that party.

Comments

Re: One of the Party Hosts

[tamidon.livejournal.com]

I thought the party was wonderful, and having folks put effort into a real party, not just putting out chips and m-n-m's and expect people to show up and hang out.Party throwing is an art, and you did great.
Also, I agree with gilana, a dress code does not make it a closed party.

Re: One of the Party Hosts

[(Anonymous)]

*Thank* you. :)

Re: One of the Party Hosts

[tehuti.livejournal.com]

Yes, it was a great party, and I'd love to be more in the loop for it next year. :-)