If you remember, Lis and I went bowling with a bunch of people because
shadesong was in town, and that was the first time I'd ever gone bowling.
Since then, I've kept asking Lis, "So, can we go bowling again today? C'mon, can we? Let's go bowling!" And Lis keeps saying that, the day after we went bowling, her shoulder hurt.
So I just said, "Candlepin bowling has a light ball, maybe your shoulder wouldn't hurt with that?" and she said "Maybe," in that kind of way that means "no."