The secret crush thing

[xiphias]

5 people have a Secret Crush on Xiphias.
0 people have a Public Crush on Xiphias.
4 people have an Ex-Crush on Xiphias.

No, I'm not going to find out who those people are. I'm upset that they even offer the option. If people have a secret, nobody else has a right to reveal the secret, barring situations where keeping the secret causes damage.

Besides, I know who at least a couple of the secret crushses are, and I think I can pretty much figure out most of the ex-crushes. . . .

I'm a bit amused that nobody's got a PUBLIC crush on me, given that I'm married and all. I certainly HOPE that's simply because Lis didn't fill out the survey in the first place.

Comments

[cheshyre]

Nope, I didn't bother filling the silly thing out.
You know how I feel about you, even without some silly survey...

[janetmiles.livejournal.com]

I don't do crushes as such, but you (and Lis, but I am pretty sure I started reading your posts earlier) are high on the list of People I Want To Meet Someday.

[gingicat]

FWIW, I dislike that particular meme and haven't filled it out.

*winks at you*

[navrins]

I have not had crushes on all my SOs. Crush, desire, lust, and love are at least three separate things, and I'd say at most two are needed for a good relationship.

[undauntra.livejournal.com]

*patpat*

There, there. You don't need to have a crush to have an SO. You just need to not run fast enough.

[teddywolf.livejournal.com]

The guy isn't high on ethics. He'd be willing to tell you who has a crush on *any* LJ user who did the Public/Secret/Ex Crush thing.

In a way I'll admit being tempted to know who my secret crushes are (I have three apparently) but frankly it's their business to tell me. I'm somewhat curious about the ex crushes too. But hey - I am not entitled to know every little thing about somebody's head whenever I want to.