Long relationships really do become their own thing -- it isn't sunk costs, it's shared life. I called have this being "an ethnicity of two" because it's as if you share a culture that has slowly accumulated and would all have to be explained to other people instead of just alluded to and taken for granted. Time. It's a real thing.
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Date: 2013-06-14 11:37 am (UTC)Long relationships really do become their own thing -- it isn't sunk costs, it's shared life. I called have this being "an ethnicity of two" because it's as if you share a culture that has slowly accumulated and would all have to be explained to other people instead of just alluded to and taken for granted. Time. It's a real thing.