so glad you remember your parental units' teachings - I hope they have stood you in good stead as you have matured - one correction, though: it was your mother who gave you the third piece of advice - when you were in preschool, you got your head wedged between the balusters on the stairs at your grandparents' house and you began to panic - I said "If you got your head stuck..." to calm you down so I could get you unstuck - it worked!