My exes are exes for good reasons. I no longer have any negative feelings toward any of them for what happened during our relationships, but we're not friends any longer--what broke our relationships also broke the friendships. There was only one with no friendship in the first place, and unsurprisingly it broke with the least pain.
I'm completely out of touch with the first man I fell in love with; I'm not even sure he's still alive, which grieves me as I would prefer for him to be part of my life and me part of his. I have at least some contact with most of the others--more contact than I want with my ex-husband but we have children together and so will always be part of each other's families.
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Date: 2010-04-04 09:34 pm (UTC)I'm completely out of touch with the first man I fell in love with; I'm not even sure he's still alive, which grieves me as I would prefer for him to be part of my life and me part of his. I have at least some contact with most of the others--more contact than I want with my ex-husband but we have children together and so will always be part of each other's families.