Interesting. To me, the fact that a family member has arranged an event does not create any obligation to attend, provided it is not one of the traditional rites of passage. I know you get more of your sense of identity from being-in-community than I do, but the specifics sometimes still surprise me.
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Date: 2007-03-13 03:19 pm (UTC)