Bartender Geek

Definitely food. If it can be set up as heat and serve meals (of comfort food like turkey dinner with sides), in 'Boston Market' plates, comes in very handy. A lot of times, people will not want to eat at regular times but will suddenly be hungry in the middle of the night.

A good chicken soup with home made noodles can also be very soothing.

I think offering her a space apart is very cool.