Yes, those other women's partners have LJs. In all three cases.
And I was thinking about reasons why Lis and I don't get that, and was thinking about how I post about silly conversations Lis and I have, and how, when we do post complaints about each other, we tend to be very careful about bending over backwards to write down things where we, also, screwed up, and how we are both LESS likely to post when we DO have problems with each other -- but I deleted those paragraphs, because, the more I thought about it, the less relevant I felt they were.
Re: On how people comment on other people's relationships.
And I was thinking about reasons why Lis and I don't get that, and was thinking about how I post about silly conversations Lis and I have, and how, when we do post complaints about each other, we tend to be very careful about bending over backwards to write down things where we, also, screwed up, and how we are both LESS likely to post when we DO have problems with each other -- but I deleted those paragraphs, because, the more I thought about it, the less relevant I felt they were.