I know that my wife got a number of those comments about me, but that's happened since before baby/pregnancy and even during economic OK times.
To be fair: the problems she's posted about have been problems. Sometimes I've been annoyed about them being posted because it felt like 'airing dirty laundry', which felt that our marriage was in a certain way being opened up to others. I have made it a point not to post things like that because it's my dirty laundry and I'd rather work it out with her before posting anything - and when/if it gets worked out there's really no need to do so.
Is there, perhaps, a pattern where the man posts that kind of grump less often than the woman? (not knowing who the people in question are, I don't have a proper clue)
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To be fair: the problems she's posted about have been problems. Sometimes I've been annoyed about them being posted because it felt like 'airing dirty laundry', which felt that our marriage was in a certain way being opened up to others. I have made it a point not to post things like that because it's my dirty laundry and I'd rather work it out with her before posting anything - and when/if it gets worked out there's really no need to do so.
Is there, perhaps, a pattern where the man posts that kind of grump less often than the woman? (not knowing who the people in question are, I don't have a proper clue)