Bartender Geek

I haven't seen any reasons you may have psoted as to why you don't want to be a mother, or can't be a mother, or would feel wrong being a mother, or whatever the proper phrasing is (very late, very tired here) but wondered whether you and he are looking as the words mother and father as meaning Male Parent and Female Parent or as encompassing job descriptions, because if the latter, I suspect he wants to be the Mother, which would leave your role as something different.

I can expand on this some other time when it's not so late and tired where I am.

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