Everyone has already posted anything I would have thought to say. I've never known this issue to have a solution, it's one that I've always considered a deal maker or breaker in a relationship since there's not really a compromise point--you're either having kids or you're not. I think the people suggesting marriage counseling are on the right track; I would say that if you go that route don't be afraid to try several counselors if necessary to find a really good one who seems to have a clue and to understand you both. I have heard that the quality of couples counseling varies really widely, so it's worth shopping around if the first one you go to doesn't seem useful.
If you guys do find a good answer to this one, I look forward to hearing what it is. Any creative resolutions to an impasse are always of interest. *hugs* to you both.
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Date: 2005-03-20 12:04 pm (UTC)If you guys do find a good answer to this one, I look forward to hearing what it is. Any creative resolutions to an impasse are always of interest. *hugs* to you both.