Isn't that one of the wonderful things about food and liquor?

What we eat and we drink is not merely calories, but is also a reminder of those who we have eaten and drunk with, those who have made those foods and drinks. Sloe gin is a tribute and a part of your memories of your friend Jeni, and therefore, even though I didn't know it, when I was at that tasting, I was honoring your friend.

Food and drink and music are all magical, because they reference and honor the people who have done them before.