I finally added you to my list, having quoted your post about Jewish mourning from alt.polyamory in 2001 to yet another person today. (Basically, every time someone gets bereaved, I dig that post out and forward it to the other person.)

I used to post on alt.poly as astral alice, but then that name didn't fit me anymore, and then usenet stopped fitting me. I much prefer livejournal, where there's no pretense at being on-topic, and anyone who reads my rambles has opted-in to it.